I’m perplexed. I’m sitting here, trying to think of a title for this post and I can’t come up with the right word. As I think about this situation, I have a furrowed brow and tension in my forehead. Since I just got home from yoga, I can tell that thinking about this doesn’t relax me…
We started homeroom this week. We call it “advisory” and it is between first and second hour. In order to make an effort to increase our reading scores, we use 2 of the 3 days for silent reading time. Some of the kids get a little confused on which class to go to, etc. If they walk into the right room, but the wrong time, they usually figure it out quickly and head to the correct location.
I have this girl in my first hour. I don’t know if she’s new to the school or not. I do know that she was recently dreaming about ghosts and when she awoke, some of her things were in a different location than she recalled. Hey- I’m just making conversation when they come in… She’s not the kind of kid that would kill a fly, let alone skip a class.
On Tuesday, she was gone. I wasn’t alarmed or anything. But then after first hour she showed up to see me. Guess what? She went to advisory instead of first hour. This isn’t uncommon. But she didn’t get up and leave when she figured out she was in the wrong place! She stayed for the entire class period!
Head shake.
Do I mark her absent or not?
So later on in the day, I talked to the teacher whose class she had attended. When he saw her in the morning, he asked, “Pa, are you in this class now?” She responds, “I’ve always been in this class.” He didn’t think much of it. We’re still at the point where they’ve made some schedule changes. So Pa sits there, for the entire class, paying attention and learning… Get this… she even did the assignment.
When kids figure out they’re in the wrong place, most of them get up, laugh at themselves, give a little explanation and out the door they go. What would possess a kid to stay in the wrong class? I don’t know if it’s extreme shyness, not wanting to make any kind of a scene or what? I hope she learned that she should get up and leave in that situation. There are all sorts of spins I could put on this. But a kid needs to have the courage to get themselves out of situation where they know they don’t belong. For her sake, I really hope she learned that lesson this week.